Charlie Hustle

While reading this story, I could almost picture Pete Rose, super-star of my “Babe Ruth League” baseball youth, like it was yesterday. There he’d be arguing with the Ump, or exasperating the other team by digging out an extra base that nobody else would even try! In other words pure fun to watch and a good reason why his nickname was “Charlie Hustle!” 

That he ultimately became a victim of his own rebellious nature, as every baseball fan of a certain vintage knows, speaks directly to the subject of…Is it true that “What Goes Around Comes Around?”

Even today with legalized betting a prolific part of major league sports, it is still a crime for professional athletes to place bets on their OWN team! That Pete Rose did exactly that, is why he was forced out of baseball and failed to achieve the “Hall of Fame” recognition he otherwise would have. 

That he was an awesome player is unquestioned. He broke Ty Cobb’s unbreakable record of 4,191 hits and “stole” countless bases! However, because he was a fan favorite, Pete’s “other side” thought he could get away with anything and he tried hard to prove it. More to the point as it says in this article, he is still trying.

But an interesting shift has occurred that I recently saw an example of. It was a father speaking to his son about fairness and sportsmanship and using the story of Pete Rose to do so. But rather than stressing Pete’s greatness as a player, the Dad used Pete to drive home to his child the consequences of doing the “wrong thing” rather than the “right thing!” 

I have to admit to my heart leaping just a bit when I heard him say, “You see what happens when you make bad choices? What Goes Around Comes Around, that’s what!” Did the kid get it? Hope so, but don’t know. Time will tell. But at least this particular Dad seems to!

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‘Charlie Hustle’ Review: The Tragedy of Pete Rose

The Cincinnati star’s intensity made him one of baseball’s greatest players. His gambling addiction tarnished his legacy as an athlete.

By  Will Leitch March 22, 2024 10:41 am ET

Pete Rose never goes away. He’s still here in body, of course, now 82, surely this very second signing everything in sight at a memorabilia show in a medium-size convention hall somewhere across this great land, telling whoever’s willing to pay him a few bucks how Major League Baseball should reverse his lifetime ban from the sport, laid down 35 years ago for gambling on his own team. Mr. Rose reapplies to the commissioner every few years, gets rebuffed, and then just dusts himself off and tries again.

As a player, Pete Rose was irresistible. When you close your eyes and think of Willie Mays, you see him gracefully gliding through center field; Derek Jeter, a deep throw from shortstop; Ken Griffey Jr., his perfect, sweeping swing. But Pete Rose? You think of him sprinting toward an open base and leaping for it, arms and legs splayed, as if he were a man on fire diving for water, as if being safe were the only thing that had ever mattered in the world. “He runs like a scalded dog,” one of his early managers said. “He’s got more stomach than a parachute jumper.”

“Charlie Hustle,” the nickname that Keith O’Brien has made the title of his biography of Mr. Rose, was actually given to him by Mickey Mantle and Whitey Ford, who were making fun of how ostensibly, even showily hard the guy worked, how little seemed to come naturally to him. Because of that very quality, however, Mr. Rose will always loom large as an avatar for a very specific style of sports superstar, the undersized, scrappy almost-always-white underdog who defeats his athletic superiors through relentless intensity—an ethos to himself. I see that Pete Rose every time I watch a Little League dad scream at his kid to sprint to first base on a walk, every time someone says they just don’t make baseball players like they used to. Mr. Rose is forever a one-man baseball culture war.

But he’s also a man, made of flesh and blood and anxieties and regrets like the rest of us, and I’m not sure there’s ever been a book that does a better job of sketching out that man than Keith O’Brien’s. The author, a journalist, grew up in Cincinnati during the peak of Mr. Rose’s career, revering him like everyone else in the city did. “Charlie Hustle,” a 329-page stem-to-stern bio, chronicles Mr. Rose’s upbringing as a working-class Cincinnati kid with a frustrated athlete father who pushed him to become a boxer. In spirited, affectionate fashion, the author chronicles Mr. Rose’s years, in the 1970s, playing for his hometown team and winning championships with Joe Morgan, Johnny Bench, Tony Pérez and the Big Red Machine. It is not difficult to understand why that team—by any measure one of the greatest teams in baseball history—was so beloved.

Mr. Rose was the public face of the Reds, but when the team started to decline, he went to play for the Phillies and the Expos. In 1984, he returned to Cincinnati to become the last man (so far) to serve as player-manager and to chase Ty Cobb’s record of 4,191 hits. In 1985, after Mr. Rose passed Cobb’s mark, President Reagan called to congratulate him, only to have Mr. Rose complain about being forced to wait on the line too long. For a moment, he was bigger than baseball. Then, within a few years, news of the gambling scandal broke, and he was forced out of the sport, the only thing he cared about (other than himself): “Pete loves two things, wholeheartedly,” says one of his many paramours. “Pete and baseball.”

The author approaches his project with an undeniable appreciation of Mr. Rose’s appeal and ability to connect with the common fan, but he is not afraid of digging into often unsettling truths. Mr. Rose gave 27 hours of interviews to Mr. O’Brien, according to the author, but, perhaps inevitably, stopped returning the writer’s calls when he began to get into what his subject calls “the dirty stuff.” And there is plenty of dirty stuff.

As a hitter, Mr. Rose was a bit of a savant, able to retain reams of information on every pitcher in the league, desperate to win every single battle, with a batting eye and measured swing so respected that even umpires questioned themselves if they disagreed with Mr. Rose on a call. But the same qualities that drove the player to be so unremitting on the field carried over to an almost pathological obstinance off the field.

As Mr. Rose earned more money and gained more power, especially when he returned to Cincinnati, he became almost comically reckless, according to Mr. O’Brien. He would carry on multiple extramarital affairs, essentially in the open, including in the company of friendly media members willing to overlook everything, and spent time with so many shady characters—from bookies to cocaine dealers to ’roid heads at the infamous Gold’s Gym in Cincinnati—that his teammates kept trying to get them kicked out of the clubhouse. One teammate comments, early on in Mr. Rose’s career, that he considered himself untouchable, and acted accordingly. Mr. O’Brien describes him as having an “enduring belief that his choices wouldn’t hurt him.”

All through Mr. O’Brien’s account, Mr. Rose’s gambling addiction—there is no other word for it—looms over the action, waiting to take him down. Early in his career, the young Mr. Rose would spend most of spring training at the horse track, compiling debts, often finding toadies and lackeys to pay them off. As he grew richer, everything accelerated. He was renowned for losing thousands of dollars a day gambling on football, horses, basketball, anything, even sports he didn’t know anything about; a policeman who investigated him says he was, according to Mr. O’Brien, “one of the worst gamblers he had ever met.”

As Mr. Rose’s gambling spiraled and more established bookies learned he couldn’t be trusted to pay his debts, he was forced to find ever more unsavory characters to make bets with—many of whom would end up in the crosshairs of the FBI. Toward the end of the book, Mr. O’Brien’s narrative shifts into something almost resembling a thriller, as Mr. Rose keeps digging himself bigger holes until he realizes the only way out is to bet on the thing he knows and loves best—baseball. He was busted by then-commissioner A. Bartlett Giamatti and John Dowd, an investigator Giamatti had hired, without much difficulty: Pete Rose, in the end, was too out of control to hide much of anything.

But because he was Pete Rose—because he always went all out, always doubled-down—he could never, ever admit this. Mr. O’Brien notes just how many opportunities Mr. Rose had to simply confess to the obvious truth that he had bet on the Reds as a manager and end up with a slap on the wrist. But Mr. Rose couldn’t do it, almost out of principle: To relent at the moment he was being accused, to admit weakness, to give in to his detractors, was against his personality both on and off the field.

There has been a movement in recent years to cut Mr. Rose slack, largely because of the widespread acceptance of betting in sports these days, particularly from the leagues themselves: Mr. O’Brien notes that today Mr. Rose could play for the Cincinnati Reds and shill for DraftKings on the side. But he still wouldn’t be allowed to bet on baseball. Mr. Rose broke a cardinal rule of the sport, the one that remains on the wall of every clubhouse in the majors to this day: Don’t bet on baseball. And he did so with aggressive impunity—as if the rules could never apply to him. It was the mindset that made him great on the field. And it’s what ruined him off it.

At the end of Mr. O’Brien’s comprehensive, compulsively readable and wholly terrific book, Pete Rose, a tired old man fully estranged from his sport, sits in a brand new Cincinnati casino, signing one tchotchke after another, telling old stories from decades ago. Each item at such a signing comes with its own price, but for $35 extra, he will add a specific phrase to the signature: “I’m sorry I bet on baseball.” This admission, such as it is, came years too late—and also is only a portion of the truth. As he once told assembled reporters years earlier, after being suspended 30 games for bumping into an umpire: “I hate to say it, but I would probably do it again, if the situation came up. It’s just the way I am.”


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U.S. Coast Guard Academy, in New London, Connecticut between 1988 and 2006, including the revelation of leaders who discouraged disclosure. Those cases do not include at least 42 more that have been identified as not having been properly investigated. That is not to mention new Pentagon published statistics showing student-reported assaults at West Point, the Naval Academy and the Air Force Academy.

So after all the accusations and denials, the truth is finally revealed about Bill Cosby’s lifetime of raping young women, who were unfortunate enough to cross his path. The answer as to how he got away with it for so long, lies in his skill of slipping a Methaquolone pill, otherwise known as a Quaalude, into a drink he would give them. It would render them helpless to escape his subsequent sexual assault. Of course, he had also built a persona of America’s Grandpa, that was the ultimate deception.I first heard about quaaludes (‘ludes) in college in the 60’s. Apparently, he did as well! The word was that if you could slip one into a girl’s drink, she would be more compliant than otherwise. The records show that Cosby had multiple prescriptions filled at least throughout the 70’s, then apparently, subsequently found other sources. It became his “MO” and many women his victim. But that game is over now, most likely for the duration of his life! As with most abusers, Cosby felt he had a way to evade the light from shining on what he was up to. He thought he was safe and would never get caught, but If accused, he could claim it was consensual. It is what all abusers think, regardless of the form that abuse takes, and sometimes it can work for a long while. But when the light finally does shine and reveals the truth, the rule is that the longer the perpetrator got away with their nasty deceptions, the deeper the hole they will have dug for themselves. Epstein escaped via suicide. I think they’ll be keeping a close eye on Bill!